The following signs she doesn’t care about you are the most commonly occurring in most failed relationships and pursuits. I would implore you to exercise rationality and objectivity in your relationship. This will allow you to identify which of these signs apply to your situation.
1. She doesn’t spend any time with you
A girl who likes or loves you will do everything in her power to be closer to you. If what you find is that she barely tries to see you, then it’s a good indicator of what her attraction level is at. If all you’ve done is chase after a girl to no avail, it may be time to readjust your approach or walk away.
2. She doesn’t reply to your texts or returns your calls
I don’t care how busy someone could be, if they truly care about you, they’ll find 2 minutes in their day to reply. It isn’t that difficult, especially in this day and age. Think about this – how often are you on your phone? Even on your busiest day, count the times you are on your phone. I’m willing to bet it’s more times than most people would like to admit. So, if she goes days without replying to a text or call, make a mental note of that because it’s a typical sign she doesn’t care about you enough.
3. She talks about liking other guys
Unless she’s doing it to make you jealous, girls wouldn’t rub it in your face that they like or are seeing other guys. If anything, the more she cares about you, the less interested she will be in other guys. Don’t allow yourself to compete for her attention with other guys. If you are the prize, it’s time to act like it.
4. You get stood up often
In these cases, I don’t think that she doesn’t care about you at all but one thing is for certain, you aren’t a priority. When I look back at my dating life, it feels so abundantly clear to me who truly cared about me and who didn’t. The girls who were flaky and canceled dates at the last minute just didn’t care enough. If you find yourself doubting whether she genuinely wants to meet you, then it may be time to reconsider the amount of effort you’re putting into her.
5. She makes excuses for not being available
Being stood up is one thing but if a girl constantly comes up with reasons for why she’s too busy and can’t meet you, then it may be a telltale sign she doesn’t care about you. If you try to remain objective, you’ll be able to tell whether her reasons are legit or crappy excuses.
6. She argues and bickers with you often
Depending on the circumstances and the kind of person she is, bickering can be a sign of attraction or a lack thereof. What I do know is that if she argues and fights with you in a manner that makes you feel as if she doesn’t care, then she probably doesn’t. What’s particularly important to note is whether she makes an effort to win you back after an argument or if you are the one who prevents the entire relationship from falling apart.
7. She never initiates contact
One of the telltale signs you’re chasing her is if you are the one who initiates all conversations and all meetings. Women who care about you will go out of their way to talk to you. The more they care, the more they reach out.
8. She’s insensitive and disrespectful towards you
When you care and value someone, you’ll do everything you can to avoid hurting them in a manner that goes beyond any justification. Someone who insults you or disrespects you without remorse simply doesn’t care about you. Irrespective of what they say, if they truly care, they wouldn’t do it or they’d do everything in their power not to.
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