1. Not returning text messages and/or phone calls.
A man who is genuinely falling in love with you would NEVER consider not returning your phone calls or texts, not even if his favorite band was playing at the local bar or he had to have dinner with his mother.
A man who is in love with you WANTS to be in touch with you as much as he possibly can be. A man in love keeps his phone close and on vibrate when the music is loud so that he can answer your call or text you back. A man in love will tell you that he is having dinner with his mother in advance, and he will call you after to let you know how it went.
2. Need “space.”
Men who are genuinely falling in love want to be with their women as much as humanly possible, and they will move heaven Men who are genuinely falling in love want to be with their women as much as humanly possible, and they will move heaven and earth to make that happen.
If your man suddenly up and says that he needs his space, it means he has some things to figure out, and chances are part of those things include the uncomfortable sensation he's having that he isn’t falling in love with you. In fact, he likely wants to break up with you but doesn’t know how to do it.
So, if your man asks for space, give him some. Lots.
3. Be critical.
Does your man criticize the way you dress, the friends you hang out with, and the way your mother calls you all the time? Does he complain about the way you clean the house or how you make his eggs or the way you park your car?
If the answers are yes, run.
When a man is genuinely falling in love with you, he sincerely believes you are perfect, even in your imperfections. The idea of being even remotely critical of you would never even occur to him. Furthermore, he would jump to your defense should anyone else dare to suggest you are not.
4. Hang out with other women when he could be with you.
Sure, most people have friends of the opposite sex, and that's entirely okay, but if your guy is choosing to spend time he could be spending with you with other women, he probably isn't the right guy for you.
As I said before, men who are genuinely falling in love want to spend as much time with their love as they can. Spending time with other women, especially women they weren’t friends with before they met you, is not something a man in true love would want to do.
5. Not making you a priority in his life.
I have a wonderful man and I have never felt a moment of insecurity about the love that he has for me because he makes me a priority, and it shows. He has a job, a sick mother, 4 kids, many friends and a generally busy, hectic life with little time left for sleep or play. Regardless of this, he always makes me the priority in his life.
ALWAYS.

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